My Wishlist is a total present cheat-sheet. 

Sweets: Dark chocolate, fresh berries

Libations: Wolford Reserve, Pinot noir

Lingerie: Dita Von Teese, Lux Tenebrae (Sz 34E/32F, Lg)

Shoes: Doc Martens, Frye (Sz 8.5/39.5)


If you really want to melt my heart...

There are a number of non-profit organizations whose causes are very important to me that can always use donations. If you donate 125 or more, please provide a receipt for an added 30 minutes of time together, on me, to show my gratitude for your generosity!


The Sylvia Rivera Law Project works to guarantee that all people are free to self-determine gender identity and expression, regardless of income or race, and without facing harassment, discrimination or violence. This means that they help trans people change things like name and gender marker on their IDs. They also set people up with trans-affirming health care, which can be extremely hard to find. Many of my close friends are transgender, and I want to see their identities supported. This project helps them do that in a tangible way.

Callen Lorde is a medical facility in NYC for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community as well as people living with HIV/AIDS. It's been an invaluable resource for me as an LGBT person. Giving back to them so that others, especially low income people, can receive affordable and accepting health care is SO important to me!